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Parenting through Guilt | Mini Chat ?

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child

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US / tʃaɪld /

UK / tʃaɪld /

A1
  • noun
  • A very young person, between about 2 and 15

become

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US / bɪ'kʌm /

UK / bɪˈkʌm /

A1
  • verb
  • To begin to be; grow to be; develop into
  • To be suitable for a particular job or role

gun

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US / ɡʌn /

UK / ɡʌn /

A2
  • noun
  • Weapon which fires bullets down a tube
  • verb
  • To suddenly make an engine run faster

sobriety

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US / səˈbraɪəti /

UK / əˈbraɪɪti, so- /

C1
  • noun
  • State of being sober and not drunk

study

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US / 'stʌdɪ /

UK / ˈstʌdi /

A1
  • noun
  • Room that a person studies or reads in
  • Piece of research
  • Topic or subject you research or learn about
  • verb
  • To focus on learning something usually at school

understand

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US / ˌʌndə'stænd /

UK / ˌʌndɚˈstænd /

A1
  • verb
  • To know the meaning of language, what someone says

would

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US / wʊd /

UK / wʊd /

A1
  • other
  • Used to indicate something imagined
  • Used to ask or request something politely
  • Verb used to indicate possibility, request etc.
  • Used to indicate a preference
  • Used to indicate a reaction
  • Indicates something that occurred repeatedly
  • Used to indicate willingness or ability to do

spoil

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US / spɔɪl /

UK / spɔɪl /

A2
  • verb
  • To damage something, usually by treating it poorly
  • (Of food) to go bad
  • To overindulge and harm the character of a child
  • To treat someone extremely well

want

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US / wɔnt /

UK / wɑnt, wɔnt /

A1
  • noun
  • Something you desire or wish for
  • State or condition of poverty
  • verb
  • To desire or wish for something; hope for a thing

can

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US / kæn /

UK / kən,kæn /

A1
  • noun
  • A metal container for storing food
  • other
  • Able to; have the skill to; have the time to
  • verb
  • To have permission to
  • To be possible to do
  • To preserve food by sealing it in a metal container

mother

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US / ˈmʌðə(r) /

UK / ˈmʌðɚ /

A1
  • noun
  • Female who has a child or children; female parent
  • verb
  • To take care of someone as if they were your child

maybe

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US / ˈmeɪbi /

UK / ˈmebi /

A1
  • adverb
  • Possibly but not certainly; perhaps

not

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US / nɒt /

UK / nɑt /

A1
  • adverb
  • Word indicating the negative
  • (Used to form the negative of verbs)

relationship

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US / rɪˈleɪʃnʃɪp /

UK / rɪˈleʃənˌʃɪp /

A2
  • noun
  • Connection between two or more people or things
  • Way people interact or live with each other
  • Romantic or loving friendship between two people

deal

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US / di:l /

UK / dil /

A1
  • verb
  • To cope with something - usually troubles
  • To give (something bad e.g. news) to
  • To buy and sell illegal drugs
  • To give out (cards, etc.) to; distribute
  • To do business with someone or to sell products

equal

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US / 'i:kwəl /

UK / ˈikwəl /

A1
  • adjecitve
  • Same in shape, size, or number
  • verb
  • To add up or be the same as

friend

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US / frend /

UK / frɛnd /

A1
  • noun
  • Person who you like and enjoy being with

now

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US / naʊ /

UK / naʊ /

A1
  • adverb
  • At the present time or moment
  • Right away or in the next possible moment
  • Used to refer to something that just happened
  • Time between the present and a moment in the past
  • conjunction
  • Resulting from or because of something

structure

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US / ˈstrʌk.tʃə /

UK / ˈstrʌk.tʃɚ /

A2
  • noun
  • The way in which the parts of a system or object are arranged or organized, or a system arranged in
  • verb
  • To plan, organize, or arrange the parts of something

but

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US / bət /

UK / bʌt,bət /

A1
  • conjunction
  • Used before you say something different, opposite

life

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US / laɪf /

UK / laɪf /

A1
  • noun
  • All the living things e.g. animals, plants, humans
  • Period of time things live, from birth to death

exactly

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US / ɪgˈzæktli /

UK / ɪɡˈzæktli /

A1
  • adverb
  • No more and no less than; precisely

resentful

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US / rɪˈzentfl /

UK / rɪˈzɛntfəl /

B1
  • adjecitve
  • Angry at unfair treatment

sort

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US / sɔ:t /

UK / sɔrt /

A1
  • noun
  • Group or class of similar things or people
  • verb
  • To organize things by putting them into groups
  • To deal with things in an organized way

feel

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US / fi:l /

UK / fil /

A1
  • verb
  • To be aware of or experience an emotion, sensation
  • To sense through direct contact; touch

stick

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US / stɪk /

UK / stɪk /

A2
  • noun
  • Long thin piece of wood from a tree
  • verb
  • To push a sharp or pointed object into something
  • To join together using glue or paste
  • To remain in one place or position for a long time

already

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US / ɔ:lˈredi /

UK / ɔlˈrɛdi /

A1
  • adverb
  • Having happened or been done before this time

discipline

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US / 'dɪsəplɪn /

UK / ˈdɪsəplɪn /

B1
  • noun
  • Instruction and practice to teach obedience
  • Particular field of study
  • Act of punishing a person for wrongdoing
  • verb
  • To control or train others by making them obey you
  • To punish a person for their wrongdoing

many

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US / 'menɪ /

UK / ˈmɛni /

A1
  • determiner
  • Used to refer a large number of things

shame

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US / ʃeɪm /

UK / ʃem /

A2
  • noun
  • Feeling of guilt because you did something wrong
  • verb
  • To make someone feel ashamed

will

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US / wɪl /

UK / wɪl /

A1
  • noun
  • Desire or choice of someone
  • Document saying who gets your money when you die
  • Strong desire to do something; determination
  • Desire to do something; strong wish to do
  • other
  • Used with verbs to express the future
  • verb
  • To leave property to someone after your death
  • To use mental effort to make something happen
  • Am (is, are) likely to do
  • To influence someone to do something
  • To make something happen by strongly wanting it

new

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US / nju: /

UK / nu, nju /

A1
  • adjecitve
  • Not old, recently born, built or made
  • Being or doing something for the first time
  • Not felt, seen or known previously
  • Having been recently bought or obtained

position

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US / pəˈzɪʃn /

UK / pəˈzɪʃən /

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  • noun
  • Person's opinion or attitude about something
  • Specific location where someone or something is
  • Where you play or your role on a sports team
  • Person's job or status level
  • Set of conditions affecting what you can (not) do
  • verb
  • To put in a particular location or direction

try

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US / traɪ /

UK / traɪ /

A1
  • noun
  • Act of putting the ball over the rugby goal line
  • verb
  • To make an effort, to attempt to do something
  • To examine someone or something in a court of law
  • To test to see if it is good or you like it
  • To make a person go through hardship; test
  • To examine something to see if it works

day

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US / deɪ /

UK / de /

A1
  • noun
  • A period of 24 hours beginning at midnight
  • The period of time when it is light outside
  • Person's name

item

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US / ˈaɪtəm /

UK / ˈaɪtəm /

A2
  • noun
  • Single, brief piece of news or reporting
  • Distinct, individual thing, often part of a group

probably

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US / ˈprɒbəbli /

UK / ˈprɑbəbli /

A1
  • adverb
  • That is likely to happen or be true

out

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US / aʊt /

UK / aʊt /

A1
  • adverb
  • No longer stylish (e.g. fashion)
  • Away from home, business, or the usual place
  • In a direction/movement away from inside or center
  • noun
  • Act when a batter cannot continue playing
  • verb
  • To tell people a secret

think

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US / θɪŋk /

UK / θɪŋk /

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  • verb
  • To have an idea about something without certainty
  • To have an idea, opinion or belief about something

mess

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US / mes /

UK / mɛs /

A2
  • noun
  • Something that is untidy, dirty or unclean
  • verb
  • To make something untidy or dirty

something

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US / ˈsʌmθɪŋ /

UK / ˈsʌmθɪŋ /

A1
  • adverb
  • In some degree or measure
  • noun
  • a person or thing of some value or consequence
  • pronoun
  • Thing that is not yet known or named
  • Approximately

guilt

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US / gɪlt /

UK / ɡɪlt /

A2
  • noun
  • Shame at doing something bad or wrong

gift

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US / gɪft /

UK / ɡɪft /

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  • noun
  • Something given to another for a reason; present
  • Special skill or natural ability to do something

leave

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US / li:v /

UK / liv /

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  • noun
  • Permission to do something
  • Vacation time; time off work
  • verb
  • To go away from; depart
  • To gift property to someone after you die
  • To allow something to continue happening
  • To let something remain unused or available
  • To let something or someone remain somewhere

owe

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US / əʊ /

UK / o /

A2
  • verb
  • To need to do something in return for a favor etc.
  • To credit someone or thing for making it possible
  • To have a commitment to pay someone for something

trick

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US / trɪk /

UK / trɪk /

A2
  • adjecitve
  • Not reliable; likely to deceive you
  • noun
  • Act of trying to fool someone
  • Quick or skillful way of doing something
  • Something done to make someone laugh
  • verb
  • To fool someone in order to obtain a result
  • To playfully tease or fool to make someone laugh

wonderful

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US / ˈwʌndəfl /

UK / 'wʌndərfl /

A2
  • adjecitve
  • Producing feelings of enjoyment or delight

where

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US / hwɛə /

UK / hwɛr, wɛr /

A1
  • conjunction
  • At or in the place which
  • In whatever place
  • pronoun
  • Word you use to ask the location of something

early

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US / ˈɜ:li /

UK / ˈɜ:rli /

A1
  • adjecitve
  • Happening or appearing before
  • adverb
  • Coming/happening before others in a time sequence
  • Happening sooner than expected

flat

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US / flæt /

UK / flæt /

A2
  • adjecitve
  • Level; even; without curves or bumps
  • Lifeless; lacking energy or vitality
  • adverb
  • In a certain, direct or absolute manner
  • Against a surface without lifting or curving away
  • noun
  • Apartment; set of rooms for living in
  • The smooth or level part of something
  • Musical tone lower than another by a small degree
  • verb
  • To share an apartment with someone

large

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US / lɑ:dʒ /

UK / lɑ:rdʒ /

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  • adjecitve
  • Big; of great size; broad, tall, wide, or fat

rest

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US / rest /

UK / rɛst /

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  • noun
  • Time when one relaxes, sleeps, or is inactive
  • State in which there is a lack of motion
  • Part of something remaining after some was used
  • verb
  • To stop working or avoid activity to recover
  • (Of dead person) to lie in a grave
  • To lean, support or place something against
  • To not be tired because you had enough sleep

girl

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US / gɜ:l /

UK / gɜ:rl /

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  • noun
  • A female child; a young woman

and

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US / ənd /

UK / ənd, ən,ænd /

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  • conjunction
  • Used to refer to two or more things
  • Plus; in addition; on top of that
  • Used to introduce an action that follows another

back

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US / bæk /

UK / bæk /

A1
  • adjecitve
  • Farthest from the front e.g. in a classroom
  • adverb
  • Have returned to a place you were before
  • noun
  • The part of a chair that the upper body leans upon
  • Location at the rear of something
  • The reverse of side something
  • Area on the rear of your body
  • verb
  • To bet money on something
  • To go backwards in a car
  • To support and encourage someone or some cause

custody

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US / ˈkʌstədi /

UK / ˈkʌstədi /

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  • noun
  • Legal right to be responsible and care for a child

closet

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US / 'klɒzɪt /

UK / ˈklɑzɪt, ˈklɔzɪt /

B2
  • adjecitve
  • Secret
  • noun
  • Small room or cupboard used for storing things
  • verb
  • To go or put someone into a room for some privacy

guy

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US / ɡaɪ /

UK / ɡaɪ /

A1
  • noun
  • Man; boy; any person

until

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US / ənˈtɪl /

UK / ʌnˈtɪl /

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  • conjunction
  • Up to; to a time when something happens
  • preposition
  • Before (a specific time)

only

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US / ˈəunli /

UK / ˈonli /

A1
  • adverb
  • Just one; just that amount or thing; not more than
  • Not very important or serious
  • Just that type of thing, person
  • Short time ago; not before a certain time
  • conjunction
  • Except; but

translate

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US / trænsˈleɪt /

UK / trænsˈlet /

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  • verb
  • To change something into a different state
  • To be equivalent to; equate to
  • To change a text, speech into a different language
  • To change words from one language into another

two

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US / tu: /

UK / tu /

A1
  • number
  • 2

accomplishment

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US / əˈkʌmplɪʃmənt /

UK / əˈkɑmplɪʃmənt /

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  • noun
  • Something you succeed in after hard work

raise

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US / reɪz /

UK / rez /

A1
  • noun
  • Increase in a bet above another when playing cards
  • Pay increase
  • verb
  • To increase a bet above another when playing cards
  • To gather donations for a cause or charity
  • To bring up and educate a child to maturity
  • To bring a dead person to life
  • To increase a quantity, size, intensity or price
  • To lift (e.g. your hand) to a higher position
  • To mention a topic /issue for discussion; bring up
  • To increase (salary, etc.)
  • To grow or care for plants or animals

easygoing

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US / 'i:zɪˌgəʊɪŋ /

UK / 'i:zɪˌgoʊɪŋ /

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  • adjecitve
  • Relaxed and informal in attitude or standards

motherhood

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US / 'mʌðəhʊd /

UK / ˈmʌðɚˌhʊd /

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  • noun
  • Condition of being a female parent

away

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US / ə'weɪ /

UK / əˈwe /

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  • adjecitve
  • Not present
  • adverb
  • Disappear completely
  • Doing something with a lot of energy
  • Not here; far from here; in a different direction
  • To a different area, location

world

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US / wɜ:ld /

UK / wɜrld /

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  • noun
  • All the humans, events, activities on the earth
  • Political division due to some kind of similarity

chill

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US / tʃɪl /

UK / tʃɪl /

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  • noun
  • State of being a little cold
  • Feeling of fear or being frightened
  • Slight cold or illness that makes you shake
  • verb
  • To make something cold, e.g. a drink
  • To become less tense about something

serve

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US / sɜ:v /

UK / sɚv /

A2
  • verb
  • To act in a particular position or office
  • To hit the first ball to an opponent in tennis etc.
  • To be used for a particular purpose
  • To give someone food or drinks
  • To give a person or group a service that is needed
  • To spend a particular amount of time in prison
  • To help customers find products and making sales
  • To give an official paper to appear in court

shit

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US / ʃɪt /

UK / ʃɪt /

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  • noun
  • A coarse term for defecation

could

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US / kəd /

UK / kʊd /

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  • other
  • Past form of 'can' to mean have ability
  • Used to ask for something politely, or to offer

know

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US / nəʊ /

UK / noʊ /

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  • verb
  • To be familiar with a person or place, thing
  • To feel sure or be convinced about something
  • To discover or be aware of something
  • To be able to distinguish
  • To have knowledge of things

slightly

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US / ˈslaɪtli /

UK / ˈslaɪtli /

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  • adverb
  • Only a little

have

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US / həv /

UK / hæv /

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  • verb
  • To drink, smoke, eat or use something
  • To experience the effects of something
  • To organize an event, or join in an activity
  • To own, possess, or hold something
  • To cause to happen or produce a particular effect

part

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US / pɑ:t /

UK / pɑ:rt /

A1
  • adjecitve
  • To some degree; half; not fully
  • noun
  • Division of a book
  • Ratio of something, e.g. 3 of gin, 1 of tonic
  • A line in a person's hair, made with a comb
  • Character an actor plays on stage, movie, or TV
  • Some, but not all of a specific thing
  • Role in causing something to happen
  • verb
  • To make a line in a person's hair, by using a comb
  • To move two things apart creating a space
  • To leave someone, or to break off a relationship

screw

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US / skru: /

UK / skru /

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  • noun
  • Long metal nail with a spiral thread
  • verb
  • To cheat someone, as out of money/property
  • To close something by turning it into place
  • To attach things together by twisting
  • To twist something out of shape, e.g. paper

regain

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US / rɪ'ɡeɪn /

UK / riˈɡen /

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  • verb
  • To get something back that had been lost

with

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US / wɪð /

UK / wɪð, wɪθ /

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  • preposition
  • As an employee of a certain company
  • Against something or someone
  • By using something as a means
  • Due to; because of
  • Including
  • Possessing as a feature
  • Related to
  • (Of the manner/attitude by which you do something)
  • Used to express that people or things are together

fall

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US / fɔ:l /

UK / fɔl /

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  • noun
  • Season after summer and before winter; Autumn
  • A drop in amount; decrease
  • Dropping from a standing position to the ground
  • verb
  • To drop in amount; to decrease
  • To come down from a higher position suddenly
  • To go from standing to the ground, by accident

for

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US / fə(r) /

UK / fɔr,fə /

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  • preposition
  • Used to show the purpose, or need of something

reminder

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US / rɪˈmaɪndə(r) /

UK / rɪˈmaɪndər /

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  • noun
  • Something that causes one to remember something

time

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US / taɪm /

UK / taɪm /

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  • noun
  • Speed at which music is played; tempo
  • Point as shown on a clock, e.g. 3 p.m
  • Number of hours, minutes needed to do something
  • Occasion when something happens
  • Period or occasion that something occurred
  • Period in history or the past
  • Something measured in minutes, hours, days, etc.
  • How long an event takes; duration
  • verb
  • To check speed at which music is performed
  • To choose a specific moment to do something
  • To measure how long an event takes, e.g. a race
  • To schedule something to occur at a specific moment

definitely

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US / ˈdefɪnətli /

UK / ˈdefɪnətli /

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  • adverb
  • Without question; beyond doubt

amount

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US / ə'maʊnt /

UK / əˈmaʊnt /

A1
  • noun
  • Quantity of something
  • verb
  • To add up to a certain figure

entitle

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US / ɪnˈtaɪtl /

UK / ɛnˈtaɪtl /

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  • verb
  • To make you eligible to hold a title
  • To give a right (of getting benefits) to someone

never

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US / 'nevə(r) /

UK / ˈnɛvɚ /

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  • adverb
  • Not ever; not at any time

just

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US / dʒʌst /

UK / dʒʌst /

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  • adjecitve
  • Proper or appropriate; as is deserved
  • Doing or being what is right or fair
  • Legally correct; having enough evidence
  • adverb
  • Almost; nearly
  • Exactly at the time of
  • Exactly (the same as, like)

punish

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US / 'pʌnɪʃ /

UK / ˈpʌnɪʃ /

A2
  • verb
  • To make someone suffer for doing something wrong
  • To treat something or someone roughly

ask

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US / ɑ:sk /

UK / æsk /

A1
  • verb
  • To say to someone that you want something

grow

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US / ɡrəʊ /

UK / ɡro /

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  • verb
  • To get bigger and more mature; make plants do this
  • To improve; to develop better skills over time
  • To develop and become bigger or taller over time

piece

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US / pi:s /

UK / pis /

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  • noun
  • A counter in a board game
  • Small part of something larger
  • verb
  • To put items together to assemble something

since

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US / sɪns /

UK / sɪns /

A1
  • adverb
  • At a point before the present time
  • conjunction
  • For this reason; because
  • preposition
  • From the time in the past that

well

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US / wel /

UK / wɛl /

A1
  • adjecitve
  • Being in a fortunate, good condition or state
  • Healthy and in good condition
  • adverb
  • In an acceptable, proper, or successful manner
  • In a complete, total, or full manner
  • A great and considerable degree
  • In a successful way, in a good or satisfactory way
  • exclamation
  • Used to begin or continue a particular statement
  • Used to show you want to start saying something
  • Used to express that you are waiting for a reply
  • You say this to change the topic of a conversation
  • Used to indicate you are making a final remark
  • noun
  • Long deep hole in the ground to get water
  • verb
  • To cause your eyes to fill with tears

face

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US / feɪs /

UK / fes /

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  • noun
  • Side or outer surface of something
  • An expression using mouth, nose, eyes etc.
  • Front part of the head where eyes, mouth etc. are
  • Characteristics you show in public
  • verb
  • To cover a surface with something like paint
  • To deal with a problem or responsibilities
  • To look toward; point in a certain direction

myself

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US / maɪˈself /

UK / maɪˈsɛlf /

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  • pronoun
  • The same person who did the action mentioned
  • My regular, usual, or healthy self

promise

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US / 'prɒmɪs /

UK / ˈprɑmɪs /

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  • To say you will certainly do something

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  • Something produced through tests or experiments
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  • False display of love, emotion or action
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  • To be easily seen or displayed
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  • Being equal in status or kind to something else
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  • preposition
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  • To want to
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  • To become affected by illness or disease
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  • To send or bring someone or something home, etc.
  • To go somewhere to obtain something
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hard

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  • Difficult to do; difficult to understand
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  • (Of alcohol) strong
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  • With lots of force, power, or impact

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  • Not liking to spend money; cheap; stingy
  • noun
  • Average of a set of numbers
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  • To express a particular idea or thought
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  • To order someone to do something; command
  • To recognize something based on certain signs
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  • Correct or true
  • The south side of you looking at the rising sun
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  • Exactly in a place or time
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  • noun
  • Something you are legally or morally allowed to do
  • Ideal of what is just and good
  • Political view based on conservatism
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  • To fix something previously wrong or unjust
  • To make upright, as a boat that has turned over

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  • Female person or animal mentioned before
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  • Close group of people or organizations
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  • The state of not having or not having enough of
  • A shortage of something
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although

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  • Despite the fact that; however

little

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  • Being short in length of time
  • Not great in size, amount, or degree; small
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  • Not often; rarely
  • noun
  • A person's name

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  • To allow someone to do something
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  • Very recently; just done or made

the

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  • In a real, actual, not false or artificial way

parent

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  • Concerning the body of a person
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into

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  • Person's name
  • A very strong feeling of affection
  • The person you care very deeply about
  • Strong, deep emotional and sexual attraction
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  • To care for and like someone very strongly, deeply
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  • You; we; people in general; someone
  • The thing or person previously referred to
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  • number
  • Number 1

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  • Being to do with schools and education
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  • To teach or train someone to know or do something

this

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  • Used to indicate something already been discussed
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also

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alternative

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  • A different choice
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  • Something different you can choose

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  • friendly and considerate
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  • One type of thing

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  • Unit of time equal to 12 months or 365 or 366 days
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  • To arrange or prepare something e.g. dinner
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  • To gain the status of (teacher, lawyer, etc.)
  • To create something by putting things together
  • To earn a certain amount of money at a job
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  • To cause something to happen or be formed
  • Introduction to Video Content
  • Parenting through GuiltParenting can be a challenging journey, filled with constant decision-making and self-doubt. Every parent wants what is best for their child, but sometimes we make mistakes or fall short of our own expectations. One common struggle for parents is the balance between being a friend to their child and being a parent.In a personal story shared in a video titled 'Parenting through Guilt | Mini Chat,' the narrator discusses her own experience with this dilemma. She admits that initially, she tried to be her daughter's friend, hoping to have a super chill and easygoing relationship. However, a comment made by her second cousin at a family function struck a chord with her and made her rethink her approach.The second cousin wisely said, 'If you parent now, you will have a friend for the rest of your life. If you try to be your child's friend right now, you're going to have to be a parent for the rest of your life.' These words resonated with the narrator, as she realized the importance of maintaining the parent-child dynamic while still fostering a strong bond.The story takes an interesting turn when the narrator shares her struggle with addiction and the impact it had on her relationship with her daughter. During her recovery, the daughter initially felt resentful and angry towards her mother for not being present during her childhood. This presented the narrator with a choice: should she parent out of guilt, giving in to her daughter's anger, or should she prioritize her role as a parent and work towards rebuilding their connection?Despite the guilt and feelings of being a 'piece of shit mother,' the narrator chose the latter. She made a conscious effort to provide her daughter with discipline and consistency, even in the face of her own struggles. The result of this decision is a well-behaved child who rarely requires discipline.The narrator offers a comforting message to parents who may be grappling with guilt over their past mistakes. She reminds them that despite their imperfections, they still need to be the parent their child needs. Discipline and structure are crucial aspects of parenting, and they do not negate love. In fact, the consistency and boundaries set by parents can eventually lead to a deeper love and understanding between parent and child.The alternative, as the narrator warns, is to let guilt and shame dictate parenting decisions. Giving in to guilt may seem like the easier option, but it can have long-lasting negative consequences. Instead, parents should embrace their role as a guide, mentor, and source of stability in their child's life.In conclusion, parenting through guilt is a common challenge many parents face. It requires finding a balance between being a friend and being a parent, while also recognizing the importance of discipline and consistency. By prioritizing their role as parents and working towards rebuilding trust and connection, parents can create a strong foundation for a loving relationship with their children.
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  • My daughter and I don't have a super chill relationship because I act as her friend.
  • My daughter and I have a super chill relationship that's very easygoing because she's very well behaved.
  • One time at a family function years ago, my second cousin said something to me that stuck with me since that day and never left.
  • She said, if you parent now, you will have a friend for the rest of your life.
  • If you try to be your child's friend right now, you're going to have to be a parent for the rest of your life.
  • And she was exactly right.
  • When I got sober, my daughter was very resentful first for being gone for, you know, not being around and she was little, she didn't understand.
  • So I was in a position where I had two options, right?
  • I could parent out of guilt for what I had done, knowing that she's angry at me, or I could understand that although she's resentful, I'm still her parent and I have to be tricked with her.
  • And that's what I did.
  • So many nights I cried in the closet and felt like a piece of shit mother, but I didn't stop showing her discipline and consistency.
  • And now she's so well behaved.
  • I rarely have to discipline.
  • So if you're a parent and you're dealing with guilt for something that maybe you did a mess up that you've had as a parent, let this be a reminder that you still need to be their parent because discipline and structure, it does equal love.
  • And even if your child is angry with you, this is going to eventually translate into love.
  • the consistency will translate into love and care.
  • I promise you.
  • Now, the alternative is letting that guilt and shame get a hold of you and parenting out of guilt, i.e.
  • letting your child get away with whatever they want, buying so many gifts, spoiling your child to make up for whatever they lacked or whatever you lacked as a parent.
  • It's only going to raise an entitled child who feels like not only you, but the world owes them something.
  • I grew up like this slightly.
  • My mom definitely parented out of guilt.
  • When I was in high school, she was studying for her doctorate.
  • She was never around, so she made up for it in physical items.
  • I thought the world owed me something until I fell flat on my face.
  • And it did not serve me well, right?
  • That sort of parenting did not serve me well.
  • It kind of screwed me when I became an adult, right?
  • And, you know, going back to, you know, my parenting out of guilt, I mean, I cannot tell you guys the amount of times I would cry in my closet and ask God,
  • Is this truly the right thing?
  • Because I feel like a piece of shit right now, right?
  • I already know my daughter is angry with me.
  • I already know she is resentful at me, but I'm still having to punish her.
  • And that was probably the hardest part of motherhood in early sobriety and getting back into motherhood when I regained custody and just kind of like.
  • I don't know, learning, learning.
  • And it was also new to me as a newly sober mom, and it was painful.
  • But I can genuinely tell you guys that it is one of my largest accomplishments.
  • And I'm very proud of myself for sticking to my guns, because as a result, I have raised a wonderful little girl.
  • So let this be a reminder, okay?